There are many things to notice when you are left to your own devices in the house where you grew up. The pantry has snacks and canned goods. Yours doesn’t. Your cupboards are too small for such variety. You don’t have nuts or hard candies or ice cream cones. And cans take up too much space so they have been mostly forbidden. But you’re doing alright … just not well. The fridge has smoked salmon in the drawer. Yours doesn’t……